I was raised in a Christian home but had never been baptized. I obediently attended church growing up but when I left home and entered into my "dark days", God was not even part of my vocabulary ... unless I was using His name in vain or praying to get out of another jam.
My parents and sister attended a Methodist church in my hometown. In 1977 my sister decided
to get baptized and even though I was twenty-four and lived three hours
away, they wanted me to join her. They used everything possible from their
"coercion arsenal," secretly hoping baptism would somehow temper my
decadent, self-destructive ways. I, on the other hand, thought it might be a
way to get them "off my back."
The day before baptism, I was invited to an
intramural baseball game - a perfect opportunity to catch up with old friends. I was in the bleachers chatting away when suddenly
my ears started ringing. People were screaming and I saw blood spurting over everyone around me, not realizing it was mine. The bat
had slipped out of the batter's hand, into the bleachers, and onto my forehead. Surprisingly I was not knocked
out. (Hard-headed, aren't I?).
My skull was fractured in four places; I had a subdural hematoma, concussion, and needed
twenty-eight stitches. While getting stitched up, my parents were there holding my hand. Remembering
the upcoming baptism, I squinted through black and blue swollen eyes and said,
"See, God doesn't want me." Sadly, I believed it for many more years and continued my descent into the dark abyss of promiscuity and alcoholism.
It took twenty-nine more years, two ex-husbands, a stint in a mental hospital (I was suicidal), and alcohol rehab to end a life of self-destruction. It was through AA meetings I grew to understand God had never abandoned me, it was I who abandoned Him. It was also through AA that I met my current husband. (third time's a charm).
Michael was a non-practicing Catholic. A few years into our marriage he felt compelled to "go
home" and I tagged along. I loved everything about this faith community and wanted to be part of it so I signed up for RCIA (Rite of Christian Initiation for Adults). I can still see the joy on my parents' faces. It was a "prodigal daughter" moment. On 4/15/2006, I "took the plunge" (literally - it was total immersion).
Contrary to the baptism
that never was, I wasn't doing it to please anyone...I
wanted it for me. There were times during the process when I had periods of doubt and feelings of unworthiness. I even considered backing out, but the Holy Spirit nudged me along ... (without the need for a baseball bat! 😁 )
The timing of God often defies your thinking. It contradicts logic. You may have troubles, battles, or trials but they do not negate God's love for you. There is a purpose behind your pain. - Comfort Ocran
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A week after accident Baptism 4/15/2006 |
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