"Letting Go, and Letting God" is difficult for a control freak ...but using the following "Exercise in Serenity" has proven to be quite helpful:
*A box with a slot, lock and key.
*A piece of paper
*On the piece of paper, write down your problems.
*Fold the paper and drop it in the box.
*Throw away the key and
*Say this prayer:
Heavenly Father, with faith and trust I turn these problems over to you. I believe You and only You hold the key to serenity. Amen.