Winning

It is said most people grow wiser with age (then,of course, I should be very, very wise by now!).

In the past, whenever I got into a disagreement with a friend, regardless of how insignificant the topic, or that I may have been way out of line, the desire to win was overwhelming.  If I failed, it would invariably result in suppressed resentment and anger, thus putting a strain on the relationship. In fact, sometimes the relationship would not survive. 

I have come to realize I don't always have to win. Although that attitude is still a work in progress, it is definitely a healthier option emotionally and has preserved valued friendships. 

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Have A Blessed Day!