How often do you say "fine" when someone asks how you are – even when struggling with something? Yep! Thought so.
I'm guilty of it, as with many others (misery loves company). For some reason, we are afraid to voice our true feelings. We don't want to bother anyone with our fears or problems; we don't think they'll understand or want to appear weak. Unless you have a therapist attached at the hip, you need to talk to somebody. Suppose your boss or an acquaintance walks up to you and asks that dreaded question. In that case, they probably wouldn't be the best people to get into a lengthy dialog about your troubles. Social media wouldn't be a good idea either. I'm referring to our trusted family members, friends, or clergy.
Pretending everything is okay works for a while, but eventually, whatever is causing anxiety will bubble, then boil over ... making it worse. When the issue first surfaces, it will be resolved more often if we reach out. If not, then at least they might have ideas on where to turn. No one should struggle alone.
I'm a firm believer in the power of prayer and try diligently to "turn it over." Still, I believe in the power of family, friends, and clergy. God also speaks through them.
Just my thought for today. Oh, wait a minute ... do you know what "FINE" stands for?
Frustrated
Insecure
Neurotic
Emotional
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